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The Value of Freedom
There’s one thing uniquely tormenting about trying again at a call you made years in the past, one that you just made with good intentions and perhaps even just a little pleasure, and realising that right this moment, you’d select in a different way.
I’d been wrestling with that feeling a yr in the past, each time I entered an condominium I purchased in 2018. It was my second condominium in the identical constructing, only a flooring under the primary one the place we lived. On the time, it appeared like a smart and thrilling step. Our youngsters had been rising up, house was at all times tight in Mumbai’s famously matchbox-sized properties, and I imagined this second condominium as a seamless extension of our present one. It had a good looking view too: a giant backyard and a hill within the distance, which is a uncommon sight of calm on this noisy and cluttered metropolis.
So, I went forward and purchased it. I funded the acquisition by promoting a few of my shares and mutual funds. That half, in hindsight, stings just a little extra. However again then, it felt like a significant milestone, as I used to be attempting to create a greater life for my household.
Then life, because it typically does, moved in instructions I hadn’t deliberate for. We lived in that condominium throughout the pandemic, however in 2022, my next-door neighbour within the authentic condominium (a flooring above) provided to promote his flat. It was a uncommon alternative to knock down the wall and mix two flats into a bigger one. Nonetheless a matchbox, however not less than an even bigger one, and all on the identical flooring.
After a lot thought, I mentioned sure. And identical to that, I grew to become the unintentional proprietor of three residences in the identical constructing.
In any case, right here’s the place the thoughts performs its little video games. That second condominium, the one I as soon as noticed as an “emotional extension” of our residence, quietly modified classes in my head. It was now not “additional house” or “residence workplace.” It had turn into an “funding.” And as soon as that psychological change flipped, I couldn’t assist however begin calculating its returns, as if it had at all times been a portfolio choice.
The numbers weren’t type. Seven years later, the anticipated market worth would give me a complete return of no more than 15%. Not CAGR or annual return, however 15% cumulative, over your entire interval! And that’s earlier than subtracting upkeep prices and property taxes. If I added these in, the return dropped nearer to 10%, level to level. Not precisely the type of return you’d need after locking up a piece of capital for seven years in India’s industrial capital, and when, in hindsight (ouch!), you realise that you possibly can have doubled or trebled that cash by simply staying in equities.
So, should you had requested me early final yr whether or not I regretted the choice from 2018, you in all probability wouldn’t even want a response. My face would have informed you all the pieces. I used to be annoyed at myself.
However some gears shifted in my internal engine in 2024 whereas I used to be engaged on my second guide, Boundless. As I researched for the guide and dove into historical philosophies, non secular texts, and the timeless knowledge of thinkers throughout cultures and centuries, I started to see “remorse” in a brand new gentle.
One recurring concept that stood out was that remorse shouldn’t be a flaw of our minds, however a characteristic of our freedom. That to dwell a acutely aware and intentional life is to often look again and wince. And never as a result of we failed, however as a result of we cared sufficient to decide on. We weren’t passive recipients of life however had been lively contributors. And contributors, by definition, generally stumble.
As Seneca wrote in On the Shortness of Life:
The best impediment to residing is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses right this moment. You’re arranging what lies in Fortune’s management, and abandoning what lies in yours. What are you taking a look at? To what aim are you straining? The entire future lies in uncertainty: dwell instantly.
And Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote:
End every day and be completed with it. You will have completed what you possibly can. Some blunders and absurdities little doubt crept in; neglect them as quickly as you may. Tomorrow is a brand new day. You shall start it serenely and with too excessive a spirit to be encumbered along with your outdated nonsense.
The Stoics typically mentioned that we can’t management outcomes, solely our decisions. The Gita speaks of appearing with out attachment to outcomes. Buddhism teaches the impermanence of all issues, that each pleasure and sorrow go, and our struggling typically comes from clinging to what might have been.
Through the years, I’ve come to see these as not simply lofty non secular concepts, however sensible reminders that remorse loses its sting after we cease treating life like a formulation that may be perfected and begin honouring it as a course of or a journey full of studying, detours, and redirections.
And so, the condominium? Sure, it didn’t work out the way in which I imagined. I’m now trying to promote it off, however I’ve stopped taking a look at it with remorse. As an alternative, it has turn into a part of my curriculum. It taught me humility. It jogs my memory that even with expertise, we by no means graduate from the varsity of decision-making.
Each section of life asks new questions. Each choice brings its personal unknowns. Remorse, then, isn’t a verdict, however a sign…that we lived, that we realized, and that we’re nonetheless evolving.
Isn’t that the unusual and delightful factor about freedom? That it means that you can rewrite your understanding of the previous. And also you don’t do that to alter the info (you may’t), however to alter the which means you assign to them. And in that reimagining, remorse can soften. It shifts from being a tormentor to changing into a trainer.
I’ve additionally realized that even probably the most fastidiously made selections include danger. One of the best plans nonetheless encounter shock detours. We don’t get to rewind the tape. All we are able to do is forgive the model of ourselves that acted with sincerity, and perceive that knowledge typically arrives late, often after it’s now not helpful for that particular choice.
The problem is to not dwell a life with out remorse. That’s unimaginable. The actual problem is to not let remorse harden into cynicism or self-blame. To see it, as a substitute, as a part of the worth of residing a life with company. A life the place we get to decide on, to behave, and to danger being mistaken.
I gained’t fake the sting is gone solely. It nonetheless surfaces, particularly after I see the chance value in numbers. However I attempt to meet it now with much less self-judgement and extra curiosity. I remind myself that the very skill to mirror, to really feel, to be taught, and to develop is its personal type of wealth.
So, should you’re residing with a remorse of your individual, perhaps about cash or a profession transfer, a relationship or a danger you took that didn’t work out, I hope you are taking a lesson from my lesson.
The actual fact that you possibly can select means you had been alive to the second. You had been engaged and never sleepwalking by life.
Remorse might stick with us, but it surely doesn’t must outline us. It’s merely a part of the panorama we cross after we select to dwell freely. It’s like a quiet companion on the highway we stroll after we resolve, many times, to dwell life on our personal phrases.
And I’d slightly have my bruises and all, than a life the place I by no means bought to decide on in any respect.
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